19
2009
Sun
WBW 16: Bounceability - the Greater the Failure, the Higher You Bounce Back to Success
Submitted by JDPumped tags: video, persist, failure, think big
Life is filled with big opportunities that end up in big damn failures. And when we encounter these failures, our spirit suddenly seems at a loss, never ever able to bounce back. Never again taking that risk towards pursuing our dreams to make it big while doing what we love. This week, Jovy Gongora, a fashion entrepreneur, shares with us her rich experiences of how she has bounced back from a "dismal" failure and has become the successful and passionate person she is now. Think big, bounce back from failure and follow your bliss!
Who is Jovy Gongora?
Since her first dreams of writing articles for magazines when she was a kid, Jovy has come a long way. After graduating from Ateneo de Manila University in 1999 with a degree in Interdisciplinary Studies with clusters in Creative Writing and Communication, Jovy then joined MEGA magazine and later on C! Magazine. During her stay in these companies, she was simply not content with her job and these were the beginnings of her entrepreneurial journey. After numerous startup experiences, including the event Thunder from Down Under held during Valentines ’04 - which she describes as a dismal venture - she has learned how to bounce back from her mistakes and failures and has truly become the strong and passionate person that she is now. Today, she and her partner / best friend have already established 19 stores placed throughout Metro Manila, with their flagship brand Una Rosa opening in 3 major malls in a span of just 1 and a half years. Now THAT's what we call BOUNCEABILITY!
When asked what's her greatest failure / challenge?
My greatest failure would be in terms of relationships. Being a control freak by nature, I have a tendency to be very hard on other people in the same way that I am hard on myself. There is a tendency for breakdown in relationships because of my tendency to be a super control freak.
When asked what's her greatest success?
My greatest success would the business I’m in right now – consisting of 19 retail stores all over Metro Manila, with the flagship being Una Rosa, with stores in Shangri-La Mall, Megamall, SM The Block and also in Shoppesville and Greenhills. My success is also seen from the people who work for me, whose lives have grown and improved.
She currently has 50 people employed.
Show notes:
Background
- Studied in Ateneo de Manila University. Did Creative Writing and Communication as clusters in Interdisciplinary Studies
- Her dream was really to write for a magazine
- Parents weren’t too happy with it because writer’s don’t make too much money
Magazine Industry
- Started working for a fashion magazine, but writing jobs were unavailable, so she ended up in Brand Management. Jovy worked there for around 5 years
- Worked with fantastic and strong women, all with vision and an exciting dream. Her direct boss was the person who put together the entire magazine from scratch
- As Jovy worked from the ground up, the company wasted her to the bone. Jovy gave it her all. Her drive back then was simply to do more than what you are paid for and just to keep fighting
Something More
- Deep in her heart, she knew there was something more. And it was not working for other people
- Started meeting with several friends – meeting and planning businesses
- However, progress would be slow. Everybody would move slow. Everyone would be waiting for each other. There would be meetings every week for 2 months, and still nothing would happen
Bite the Bullet
- After 5 years, Jovy decided to quit her job and just bite the bullet and attempt to go at a business
- Worked on another business with another group of friends. However, in the end, still nothing happened.
Back to the Magazine Industry
- 6 months along they Jovy had no more money, so she decided to go work again.
- She worked for a Car Magazine with excellent men who were very kind and allowed her to have a flexible schedule. They recognized that she had an entrepreneur inside her
Thunder From Down Under
- Her best friend came upon a concept of bringing in Australia’s Thunder from Down Under or the chip & dales (or male strippers) into manila for a show
- It involved bringing in 6 young and sexy boys from Australia who were trained with all the fanfare, the vegas lightshow, the dancing, etc.
- They pooled together their funds, worked on the project for a couple of months – making these boys rockstars to be held on Valentines and was being marketed as the Ultimate Girls Night Out
- Their vision there was “if you build it, they will come”
Disaster!
- In the end, they didn’t hit their targets. It was a disaster.
- It really hurt to lose that much money. Her partner lost his hard earned money. She lost the money she borrowed from her parents
But why leave it at that?
- Most people would probably just walk away and say “That was it.” And would just stay with the day job forever. “That was my one shot at success.”
- However, they decided to keep on going. They were meeting with other people trying to put up other potential shows. They were planning to go local this time.
Other Opportunities
- They held one of their meetings in Figaro in 50th Avenue in Robinson’s Galleria. She and her partner liked the place and inquired about possibly renting a stall – even though they didn’t have anything to sell yet!
- They decided to sell men's wear given that that wasn’t available in the area. The samples they presented belonged to her business partner!
- They got the space and they had to be open within a month
- They then took their first trip to Bangkok with a “sugod lang” mindset.
It was not enough
- Sales in that one store were not enough to split between two people. Jovy was still at her day job & her partner was still in the family business
- 2 months later, they opened more stores in the tiangge in Greenhills, just in time for Greenhills and they just kept selling clothes
- Not all spaces would do well. There would be good days and bad days. But you stick with it. You keep going. You keep selling.
- Took advantage of every opportunity they got. They made mistakes as well. One example was going into the department store, but found out that it wasn’t for them. It’s a big arena where you have big manufacturers to contend with, but they still kept on going
Make something BIG. Thinking Big.
- Jovy quit her day job when they opened their 9th store. The end goal was to make something big.
- Based on their providence , they were able to build a brand “Una Rosa” that they actually market, which they were able to present to the big malls
- After 4 years, from crawling from the ground up, they have now opened 3 stores - Shangri-La Mall, Megamall, SM The Block, all of which opened within the span of a 1 and a half years
- They believe in themselves and they believe in the product.
- Thinking big is important, but at the same time, what gave them that kind of gumption was the fact that they failed big also
- Since you know that you can do that, that its possible to pick yourself up from being down in the dirt with nothing to actually turn that all around, it is possible. It is possible as long as your vision is clear
Vision
- Her business now is really a product of passion. She and her business partner were into clothes because they both were into fashion and one thing they really enjoyed was really dressing people up, was making people beautiful - changing people’s demeanor by way of presentation
- In the essence its on the surface but eventually it goes down deeper than that, and that’s what we are in the business of doing
Rollercoaster Ride
- It's been a rollercoaster ride and that’s what bouncability is really. It's about being able to bounce back from failure. They’ve failed several times in the past 4 years. They opened stores and closed some. But at the end of the day, you look at the bigger picture – what’s really important
- Follow your dream. Follow your bliss. Because at the end of the day, all of this started from her knowing that there was really more than her day job working for other people
- She learned from her bosses the spirit of being an entrepreneur. Each of them was an entrepreneur at heart – having a vision and was passionate about a particular product. That was something that was priceless
All or Nothing
- You continue to move on because at the end of the day. Its only you and your dream. Sometimes its all or nothing. You go for it. You take risks.
- It took Jovy awhile to leave her day job. She’s a single mom and can’t just get up and go and gamble her life away just like that. At the end of the day, it wasn’t about that. At some point you need to let go. And you realize that working in your job, you help other people earn money. What about your own?
- In a nutshell, its about bouncing back from failure. Failures will come. That’s part of life. You just keep going. From the lowest of the low to going up, Jovy has never been more comfortable in her life. And it may or may not stay that way. She wished it would, and that it would continue to move in leaps & bounds, because she has a lot of people counting on her, so it becomes bigger than that
- Just continue to follow your bliss. If you continue to follow that, you will get it.
"The Board" message:
Follow your bliss!
Check out these other related posts:
- WBW 42: There's No Such Thing as an Easy, Overnight Success part 2 of 2 with York Vitangcol
- WBW 42: There's No Such Thing as an Easy, Overnight Success part 1 of 2 with York Vitangcol
- WBW 39: Failure is Shitty especially when You Don't Learn from It with Louie Montalbo
- WBW 37: Invest in Yourself, You are Your Greatest Asset part 2 of 2 with Harry Hawson
- WBW 37: Invest in Yourself, You are Your Greatest Asset part 1 of 2 with Harry Hawson
Just a few questions for discussion: 1. have you felt that need to follow your bliss? 2. do you listen to that need? is there anything that holds you back (e.g. previous failures, fear of failure, etc.) 3. have you bounced back from failure? what helped you get through it?
21
2009
Tue
The fashion retail industry is not for the faint-hearted. It is only for those who are passionate and bold. The highs and lows of it will teach you how to take it further. So if you 'Follow your bliss', as Jovy puts it, you can only move forward as you crave for more.
21
2009
Tue
Totally agree Quick :) There was a time me and a friend got fixated with TOMS shoes. I don't know if you know that brand, but we thought we had the resources here in the Philippines to do some shoes that are as simple and as stylish as what they have. And so we started talking to people within the industry. Several discussions later, and some read books and articles, we decided we didn't really have the heart to pursue fashion's swings. Iba talaga kapag mahal mo ginagawa mo. You can see everything right from its conception, to how you see it grow and evolve.
21
2009
Tue
Glad for you and friend to realize it sooner before starting out a business that you didn't have the heart for. While it didn't push through, I'm sure you learned something from attempting this business idea. :) Fashion retail has a charm that lures inexperienced entrepreneurs, especially those who are fond of fashion trends. It may seem exciting and all glam initially, but when the real stuff comes, it is a challenge to contend with. But, this challenge can be turned into a game of fun and learning, if one understands "the fashion swings". More importantly, if one is passionate about winning.
21
2009
Tue
Yeah definitely. It's not just being a strong believer, but the fact that I've learned something from the experience gave me a better view of every great endeavor. There was a particular detail I remember from one of our interviews with a friend in the shoe biz, that it was very difficult to create general sizes for races that you are not dealing with everyday. Apparently, different people of different races have different foot proportions. And so, for example in creating leather shoes, one must take into account the stretching and shrinking of the skin in different climates. It was a lot of details to consider, which we believed we weren't that passionate about to be the best at that. With that said, we learned a valuable lesson, that great stuff were made not just by basic skills, but with people who have invested their hearts, minds and years into their craft that a good capitalist must value in order to be number one. Slowly, I think we're learning to pay for great skill, because of the lessons we were able to get. Anyway Quick, are you in the fashion business? Would love to hear about what you do :)
22
2009
Wed
excellent discussion. great site guys, keep up the good work. is that bubbly woman available? :P
23
2009
Thu
Hi Jepoy :) thanks for the compliment. And don't worry, we'll ask her. haha matinik pala tong si Jovy!
23
2009
Thu
I had a modest opportunity to work for a newly put-up fashion business, through which I had the luck of earning simultaneous with being an apprentice. I have to give credit to my boss who was more than generous to teach and explain the smallest of details about the business. Some I was ready to pick up, some would require me more experience to understand. I never had the slightest idea that fashion is so complex, merely a notion that money will flow in as long as you are fond of it. However, similar to your dilemma my passion lies elsewhere so I am on my way to following it.
23
2009
Thu
O nga eh. In the end, it's the individual identity and passion that will drive a person forward. External factors can't be the only means of determining which path to take. It's not an "arte" thing or an unpractical choice. I even the thin that a person is "maarte" and unpractical when he or she pursues something out of thoughts of social duties or limitations. Regardless, we all learn from whatever we've experienced. Good luck to you Quick. Hope we can meet some day.
23
2009
Thu
I'm sorry Ken, I did my best but I couldn't make out of this part of your reply. - "It's not an "arte" thing or an unpractical choice. I even the thin that a person is "maarte" and unpractical when he or she pursues something out of thoughts of social duties or limitations." Would be grateful if you could expound it further. Thanks.:)
23
2009
Thu
Hehe, mukhang naging magulo ako dun. What I meant was, for example, if one is caught in a situation wherein he or she had to choose between A) work that he or she doesn't exactly love but pays well or B) work that he or she loves but pays lower. When the choice is A, common thought is that he or she was "practical" and smart, whereas when B was chosen, it's often frowned upon as "unpractical" and "kaartehan lang". I tend to question these mainstream thoughts because I think it is more practical and smarter to choose B, because when one chooses what one is passionate about, he or she will enjoy everything about the specific work. Tendency is that you work hard at it and try to be the best at it, not only because you want to beat the rest, but also because you want to improve just for the sake of improving. Improvement inevitably leads to innovation, and once you reach those levels, you will practically be one of the most well known in that particular field, of which brings most of the tangible and intangible returns. So in reality, I believe that those that stick to their talents and passions inevitably become the happier and richer people. A matter of "delayed gratification" I suppose, of course in the sense of amassing wealth only. What do you guys think?
23
2009
Thu
@ Ken: Well, depends I suppose on how you want to quantify success and "delayed gratification". At the end of the day, different people want different things. Some people want to base their success on how many digits they earn. Others based on the people they are able to help. And also those who just do what they enjoy. Its rare to find people doing all 3, but not impossible. :) Jovy is I think is a great model of how, in following her bliss, she was able to be successful in not just one aspect. :) I guess the key to understanding what will make you happy and passionate and successful will also depend on your understanding of yourself and what makes you "click" @ Quick: Good luck in finding your passion :) Hope the other content on this site will be able to help you truly "follow your bliss" despite what other people may think or say. :)
24
2009
Fri
Precisely my point :) people should follow their individual - in the words of Paulo Coelho - PERSONAL LEGENDS. It's far more practical and much smarter to pursue one's passion than to follow someone else' footsteps or what made them successful. In the end, my life is my life and yours is yours, it will be our own regrets to bear if we don't take the chance to live for our selves.
24
2009
Fri
@Ken: That's true. When one is passionate about something, it is easier to exert the effort because the desire to overcome the obstacles is at work. However, I may also add two other elements that will contribute to a bigger result. Other than passion, let us also take into account two more factors at play, these are 1)strengths & 2) effort. I've read an article about this, which convinced me about its reality. So, in any endeavor, if we love it, and we are born with the strengths for it, and we exert enough effort to master it, then we have the right formula to success!:) @JD: I agree. As Brian said, 'Look inward, then move forward'. This phrase is chock-full of truth, and it's easy to remember. Thank you, and I could never thank you guys enough by bringing up this site, as it gave me another pillar to hold on to. Always looking forward to deeper learning.:)
26
2009
Sun
Holy cow! I was surprised to find a link to the Thunder From Down Under website. You guys are thorough! Napadalaw tuloy ako...a trip down memory lane to the tune of Land Down Under. Yelp!!! I love the discussion you guys have going here. I too always look forward to greater learning and you are my teachers :) Keep up the great work! Btw, I appreciate the link to the Unarosa website as well. Thanks!
29
2009
Wed
this is awesome! very inspiring!
29
2009
Wed
Thanks Monica! Do come back every week :) New videos up every Sunday 9pm Philippine time and 5am Pacific :) Glad you liked it.
21
2009
Thu
Hi Jovy..just wanted to reach out and to tell you I'm watching and learning from your ever growing success. I believe OUR timeline was 3-years? I hope all is well. Gob bless. me






19
2009
Sun